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Let me quote a few things here to set the tone . . .
http://www.independentmail.com/news/2008/aug/25/bailey-hanks-loves-anderson-ditto-say-fans/

From the comments section:

Congrats to Bailey but was all that last night really needed?

 

in response to upstatewave

I so agree with you! I am also glad she is doing well, but how is being a "broadway star" helping others?

 

in response to clemson_girl

clemson_girl, what does it matter if she is "helping others" or not. Life is not all about helping others.
Now, there has been no one more critical than I about all the attention heaped on Bailey Hanks. There's a difference between being a talented performer and being a "star". Seems to me she wants to be a "star", one of the most useless things you can be. And just as likely she's just a candidate to become the next burnt out brain dead bimbo, joining the likes of Brittany Spears and Lindsey Lohan or whoever it is that's flashe on the news from time to time.

But that aside, it's what she wants to do, succeed or fail.
And if she's not "helping others" besides herself, SO WHAT??

I get tired of all the compassion fascists who want to subordinate all else to "helping others", oftentimes people who need only a good swift kick in the a$$.

 

in response to clemson_girl

I think then that you have a blinkered view of life that is going to leave you mired in frustration.

As for Ms. Hanks, having looked at the video of her singing a number from the musical she's in, if she truly wanted to help people she'd stop singing. My god?! (Oops, her grandfather wouldn't like that.)
Flash in the pan. Her next homecoming may be permanent ... maybe she can learn to sing "Would you like fries with that?"

 

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I'm simply shocked that in one of Anderson's brighter hours, there are still people who can find nothing nice to say. I wonder if we roll back the clock and look at what has been "heaped" on Radio if we would see the same groups of negative crumudgeons spewing hate and negativity. Just because your life is a miserable heap does not mean that you can't learn to share in the joy and success of others.

One of these days ... the bulk of the miserables will pass on. One can only hope it's sooner rather than later.

 

- SSHM

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It's funny you would pick this topic and person.  I made no comment on allllllllll of those articles about Bailey(hope I got that right). There was a BHP student(Taylor Fitch) who won Miss America Outstanding Teen recently.  She got a $31 thous scholarship and barely got a mention, while the other girl seems to be in almost every paper recently.

I don't think the comments were supposed to be negative. You know the phrases--run it into the ground, beat a dead horse, tooo much of a good thing.  Just think they might come into play.

SSHM.  you of all people did bring a smile to my face by posting this topic.  (BTW, am I making you about die as you spit out your drink again--I can only hope.)

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Confused,

There is an excessive amount of Pepsi spillage on the computer desk. I do hope you are happy. Tongue out

Yes ... and thank you for reminding both me and the group here about Taylor Fitch. You left out the part that she's a bit of a brain too. Laughing It does go back to the earlier Polyana post that made the round here: Anderson does have a lot to offer. Case in point: I brought a good friend to Anderson this past weekend. The friend was amazed as to how nice things are and was quoted as saying, over and over again, "It's actually a lot nicer than I expected."

Plenty of good people ... plenty of good things to do. Sadly, we still have too many miserables running about.


- SSHM
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 I wholeheartedly agree that whether or not the 'intent' was to be negative, negative it is!  SHAME, SHAME! 

Congratulations Bailey!  May your star burn brightly, your talent improve as a fine wine and your human spirit and abilitiy grow in such a manner as to bring honor not only to yourself, but also your family and your hometown .  God speed!

 

 

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Spring, you just proved my point.  What do you know about Taylor?  She is another young woman who can be proud(for her brains) and I didn't see you now congratulate her.  Is she not politically correct?  Bailey is quickly becoming a worn out tune.  And Spring,  you just lost any credibility with that sappy nonsense.(not typical for you)  Write a book.....

 

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I will always remember when cindi asked in open session, in refernce to one of the "pie in the sky" plans ..

"who do we think we are to want to build such a thing?"...

that quote truly summed up the entire joey/cind/rick driver 3-some...

joey actually thinks we can aspire to be something different than we were, while cindi thinks we should be content to remain sleepy agrarian mill towns with rich landed gentry (her term...not mine) living on ancestral homeplaces (again..her term) benevolently guiding the rest

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PN, here's an example of why I am confused.  How does this pertain to the topic?  Other than being negative and totally off the wall.
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This town, and for that matter this FORUM, loves it's miserability and disharmony!  We could be named nicest city in America and I'd bet dollars to donuts that about 1/3 of this crowd would say we cheated, bought the vote, bribed the judges, weren't fairly conducted or some other crap.  The Driver crowd would want a recount, MCW would say her part of town wasn't included and we should do an audit of the voting, and the whole story would be buried in the back of the HOMETOWNER section instead of front page. Sure, the Bailey Hanks newsprint IS a bit much, but WHAT the heck else do we have to be proud of?  A nasty political environment?  Poor business environment? Clemson football ( gag!)?  Plastic fishies all over downtown?  Someone finally makes it big and folks bash her and degrade her voice ( guess it's good enuf for New Yawk City folks)

Ive not encountered more disenchanted and skewed thinkers than around here....maybe it in the water?

 

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What this town needs is a good enema!

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Wyatt is right. And while the Bailey/Taylor coverage might be unbalanced it is refreshing to see positive news on the front page instead of who is suing or pointing their finger at whom. Good job to both girls.
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Looking forward to the aftermath of the weekend's festivities from the Ballonfest, BBQ cook-off and gamac concerts.  Can only imagine t he b*tching, whining and negative comments ( oh, there was clouds during the launch....I couldn't  get a fresh funnelcake!..he BBQ plates were too expensive.....I couldn't find the beer cart!)

 

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I have to give Bailey the bulk of my congratulations. How many other young women from Anderson can you name who have made it big on Broadway? Maybe one other made it in New York. Taylor on the other hand has won just another one of the numerous beauty contests/nice girl competitions that SC seems to have so many of. Not taking anything away from Taylor, but Bailey has hit the jackpot in comparison. I am really surprised anyone could have anything negative to say about her. White Plains Drifter might be on to something with that enema idea!

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Kilkenny,
Does Loretta Holliway mean anything to you? Has made it big over along period of time. No key to the city, no special day for her.
How about Wanda Johnson? Has made it big. No key to the city, no special day.
Can you guess what these two have that Ms Hanks does not?

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Johnb2---Yes, they are both black ladies. Ms Holliway was the one person to whom I was refering. Wanda is good, but not of quite the same caliber in my opinion.

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There are more people on this blog that work on social issues than not I believe. That gives them the right to point out the bad as they work to make positive change. You don't have to be loud about what you do, just be doing something positive.

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Kilkenny,
Wanda is not as experienced as Ms Holloway but both Ms Holloway and Wanda have had much, much more success than Ms Hanks. They just did not have the support of the "right crowd".
I applaud what Ms Hanks has done, it took hard work as well as some luck, but keys to the city and having your own "Day" should come after years of success in my opinion.

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Confused...

 

I guess, in retrospect...her comment wasnt "negative"... I just viewed it as such, because it showed a perspective towards anderson that says we dont deserve good things, or have the right to aspire to be as good as anyone else....which i see as a negative comment..

that is the attitude that attacks anyone who raises above the median..who is "better than average" or who shines above the rest..

 

"who do we think we are".... sums up her view so well and explains why she isagainst anything and everything.. she dosnt believe that we deserve to be viewed as progressive...or cutting edge in anything...

 

just my perspective..

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There's a really good article about Taylor Fitch on the AIM site today.  (Kilkenny, you might give it a glance.)  I don't know the young woman, but she sounds like she has a good head on here shoulders.  I wish her the best.
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M-M-M-M. It is interesting that an honest innocuous opinion is frowned upon. Perhaps I need to be more politically correct and dodge around the issues.

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